Porn and Disney Movies

From: Stuff No One Told Me

Isn't it true, we girls see "Prince Charming" through pretty much every movie that has even a hint of romance in it... then some of us wonder, "Where is my prince charming?" or even worse, "Why doesn't my boyfriend act like that?"

We all agree that the movies aren't realistic, but do we really realize just how much guys don't act like princes? That doesn't mean they're jerks but truthfully, I don't want to date a prince and I'm not dating a prince. That's completely okay with me. I don't want a sappy guy who pays for all our dates, opens every door for me, and texts/calls me every two minutes. It's inefficient and not sexy, at least in my eyes. I want a guy who doesn't mind confronting me on an issue, I want a guy that's not scared to discuss or even have a fight with me. Unfortunately, you don't see many guys like that on movies. Also, I never want a guy whose happiness is dependent on me. You see this all over movies but it's completely unhealthy. Yeah, my boyfriend can affect my happiness and I can affect his happiness but we are no where near dependent on each other. That is also, inefficient and unsexy.

And dudes, I know that most of you have watched porn and I know that there's more than a few girls on here that have watched it to. That's not the point, the point is don't expect your girlfriend or wife to just be a little sex kitten that will be up to do whatever you want to do. Many woman are not comfortable with what porn stars are comfortable with and they may never be. That is not saying that an open minded and more adventurous woman is a whore. That's not what I'm trying to express at all. I mean to say that by desiring the typical women in porn you will be disappointed because there are women out there who are fine without experimenting and if you already expect a woman to want to do all kinds of awesome/crazy things but she doesn't want to ... well, you're out of luck. Also, by wanting a typical porno star you may be asking for something you don't really want because if she is really an "insatiable whore" then she probably won't be satisfied with only you. She'll be out getting satisfied with your best friend instead and that won't do much for your ego.

Yea, there are some women who will do whatever in bed with you and only you. But there is an obvious difference between the porn stars usually seen in porn and your significant other. Don't treat her like a slut ... unless she's into that.